I don’t have much to say on the topic of disability etiquette. For the most part, I get along with others and they get along with me. There are however a few things that I would like to make clear:
1. For the most part, at least in my experience, people with disabilities are just like anybody else. Common sense and the golden rule apply treat others as you would have them treat you. I am a person who uses a wheelchair, so I will be confining the rest of my remarks to that perspective.
2. My wheelchair is part of my personal bubble. Do not lean on it, or try to climb in my lap, unless you have my permission.
3. Do not pat my head or treat me as if I’m a child. This is condescending and rude.
4 If we enter into a conversation and I start to stammer, try to be patient with me. Do not try to complete my sentences for me. You will most likely bee wrong, which will frustrate me, and cause me to stammer more.
5. The word ‘Retard’ is deeming and insulting and should never be used for any reason whatsoever.
Remember common sense applies when interacting with anybody. If you have a question, ask, try not to make assumptions, and treat others how you would want to be treated.
I think that’s all that needs to be said.